Contributions to the tribute of Sandra Boughan

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Sunday, December 1, 2024

To think of Sandy smiling while zipping around with wings is pleasing. What Sandy's love, radiance, and spirit has brought me through your family will always be lit. The love, the laughs, and the family are in my heart forever. Thanks Sandy. Thanks God. Always, Mafoo

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Kie Walker posted a condolence

Thursday, November 21, 2024

One of my earliest memories of my Aunt Sandy was when I was five years old. She and my Uncle Dusty let me be their ring bearer when they got married in December, 1971. (At five, I was too young to comprehend what an honour it was, or what a special occasion was taking place.) It would be impossible to list even a fraction of my favourite memories of this beautiful woman--there are too many to choose from. Growing up, I honestly cannot remember Sandy ever treating me like a child--and, over the years (the ups, the downs, and the in-betweens) she allowed me to be her friend rather than her nephew. And what a friend she was! I will forever remember her smile, her laughter, and her sense of humour. We shared a number of common interests, and that only served to make the bond stronger. On several occasions, in moments when I needed an ear to listen without judgment or a shoulder to cry on, Sandy was there for me. Aunt Sam (as I affectionately called her) grew up loving all sorts of things: her best friend, Faye, bowling, concerts, the Beatles, John Denver, country music, all the many pets she had over time (including two rats who scared the bejesus out of me!)...and so much more. (Oh, and "Yellowstone"! My goodness, how she and John loved their "Yellowstone.") But, above all else, Sam loved her children and her grandchildren. (Try as you might, you will never find two more beautiful, loving, and wonderful daughters as Jennifer Marie and Heather Michele. Angels on Earth, I kid you not.) And I would be remiss if I didn't mention her son, Dustin, Jr.--she loved that young man fiercely. And John, her second husband? What a guy! (I think the stars must have aligned to bring those two together.) J.B. stood by Aunt Sam, and took care of her as her health declined. He absolutely idolized her, and she cherished him. (And let me not forgot to give a shout out to their pup, EZ. The joy that dog brought into her life...I just can't find the right words.) I have a really bad habit of rambling, so I'll try to wind this up. Aunt Sandy, I don't think you fully realized how many lives you touched or how many people loved you. Family, friends, neighbors. You were an incredible human being--daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother ("Nana"), and friend. You leave behind countless shattered hearts, but your passing has served to bring all of us together in a way I never imagined was possible. You had the gift, but never knew it. Through the tears, I have to make myself stop here. (But I could go on until the cows come home.) I know how very much you and J.B. believed in the paranormal, ghosts, spirits, and whatnot. I pray with all my heart you will find a way to let each of us know that you arrived safely to that place we go when we leave this crazy world behind. Please give Gooma a hug for me, and let Faye know that she is not forgotten. (Will never be forgotten.) And, in time, when we meet again, I look forward to playing our Toon Blast and Yahtzee. I love you, I miss you, and I keep you in my heart always. Forever. P.S. Heather and I both look forward to learning the "secret"--just not anytime soon!

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Wednesday, November 20, 2024

I remember when I was a kid and all of the adults went somewhere when we were visiting Kentucky, Nana let me watch Rudolf in her bed. Another time, she let me watch Beauty and the Beast in her bed. I will always miss telling her about school and the boys that I like, and I'll always miss her voice. I'm grateful that she is in Heaven with Jesus though. I love you, Nana <3 Love, Phoebe Slater

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Heather Slater Posted Nov 22, 2024 at 11:45 AM

Phoebe Honey, You were her Pho-e-bee. Her first granddaughter, her first grandchild! I remember she used to hold you in her lap and read "Sesame Street" books to you and help you look for Elmo. Whenever I would try to talk to her during those times, she would just glance over at me and say, "I'm busy." (as in "Leave me alone right now, I'm with My Phoebe.") Of course she would let you watch movies in her bed. You were her princess and no pleasure was off limits to you...

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Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Gosh Momma, The last time I saw you, it was a quick goodbye. You left us so fast. There is just no way to know when the very last goodbye will be. I'm torn about that. On one hand, I will never another chance to say, "Bye Mom." I'll never get another kiss, another hug, another smile, or another laugh (oh, your laugh...) from you here on earth (such an unstable place, it is). If I had known our last goodbye would, in fact, be our last, I know I'd never be able to let you go, and therefore you'd never be free. So, there's the tear...right there, in my heart. I'd give all I own just for one more night with you here in the flesh, but you ARE free now, so I'll eventually make my peace with that, I suppose. I'll never forget how I made you crazy with "Thriller" and Debbie Gibson in the '80's. I'll never forget the '90's when I drove you even crazier with Madonna, and Joan Osborne's, "One of Us." And then there's Jewel's "Foolish Games." Most of all, I'll never forget riding around in cars with you as you jammed to the likes of The Carpenters, Elton John, and your less savory choices, such as Garth Brooks and George Strait. How your country music turn drove ME crazy. However, our destinations always led us to places such as McDonald's, Starbucks, the video store, and just about everywhere else... Through all of it...from the first, and the last ride, all the way to the last goodbye, your smile, your beautiful eyes, your hands, and your giant heart is what I'll hold dearest to me. There are so many other things I could list here, but there's never enough room on paper to list them ALL! Always know how I much I've loved you, I'll never stop. Bye Mom, Heather PS: The kids are fine and they say, "Hi."

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Nora Slater posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

I remember when I was a kid I was living at her house for a few months. She bought me and my sister, Phoebe, Hot Cheetos and ramen. I remember it was my birthday and she got me lots of nice gifts. I specifically remember a barbie doll with hair down but she also had two buns. I also remember a unicorn toy. She always made sure Phoebe and I were happy, it's sad knowing I will never feel her love again. She made sure Phoebe and I were never sad and I admire her for that. I'll always love you, Nana. -Norabug

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Heather Slater Posted Nov 22, 2024 at 11:37 AM

Nora, you are the sweetest girl on the planet. Nana is very proud of you, and just as she did in life, she will make sure that even in death, that you ALWAYS feel the love that she has for you. Nana admired YOU--don't forget that. She will always be there for you in your heart--you can still talk to her and tune in to the frequency of her undying presence. She's always around and you will always be HER Norabug! I love you, my N'Oreo Cookie! Love Always, Mom :) >3

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Elaine Boughan Conroy posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 20, 2024

My deepest condolences to and prayers for the family. I am so sorry for your loss. Elaine Boughan Conroy

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Heather Slater Posted Nov 21, 2024 at 12:37 PM

Thank you so much Miss Elaine! I haven't had the privilege of meeting you, however, your condolences are much appreciated. Our sweet mother was unlike any other! :) She will be so missed!

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Thursday, November 14, 2024

Sandra Boughan

1954 - 2024

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